Being both a father and an ex-husband, Billy Flynn Gadbois decided to do something for his ex-wife that many won’t approve.
He surprised her on her birthday with a loving birthday card, flowers, and a breakfast which he had prepared together with their children.
When he was asked about why he still does that, he said that that specific question annoys him, because he is raising two little men, and that he needs set the correct example on how they should treat women, may it be their mother, a friend, or family member.
He adds that when the children see how their dad treats their mom, it will form the way they see women, and will greatly affect the way they see relationships as they grow old.
He finishes his post by noting that if you aren’t modeling good relationship behavior for your kids, get your sh*t together, and be an example. This is bigger than you, and you need to raise good men and strong women. He states that the world needs good need good men and strong women, now more than ever.
But, Billy states that it has not always been easy for him and his ex-wife to overcome their issues. They have had to learn how to overcome their resentment and anger that they had for each other. Though it wasn’t easy, they had to do it for their children.
He concluded by saying that they had to work hard over time, to establish their boundaries and find ways to manage their interactions, so that their issues are minimalized or left at home when it came to the kids. It is an ongoing process but there is a big change in the happiness, confidence and security of the children since they had started working it out.
“IT’S MY EX-WIFE’S BIRTHDAY TODAY SO I GOT UP EARLY AND BROUGHT FLOWERS AND CARDS AND A GIFT OVER FOR THE KIDS TO GIVE…